Tuesday, November 17, 2009 1:20 AM
okok this is another one of my rants again
so yeah hehe. :x
anyways yep theres actually something called the middle child syndrome
shocking much ?
and i think im suffering from it o.O
aiya, not surprising ok
i went to do a research about it
and ... here are the results
Yes, the “Middle Child Syndrome” is very real. Middle kids BEMOAN THEIR FATE as being ignored and often grow RESENTFUL of all the parental attention given to the oldest and the baby of the family, and feel short-shifted. Three kids triangulate sibling relationships, with one child at any given point feeling like the odd man out from the chumminess of the other two.Parents tend to be much more easy-going, less anxious, and less demanding with second child. Thus many middle children grow up with a more relaxed attitude towards life than their older siblings; though they have to compete for family attention against the milestones set by the oldest, and growing up in their shadow. Middle children have to try a little harder to “be heard” or get noticed. The middle child usually has to fight harder for the attention of their parents and therefore crave the family spotlight. They may feel that they do not get as much praise as the older children for simple firsts like tying a shoe or riding a bike. Those things just become expected.
The baby of the family basks in the sentimentality of being the last child, and are basically SPOILED ROTTEN. The youngest children tend to be most affectionate, and more sophisticated than their peers without older siblings to show them the ropes.
OKOK this is so so so scaring me ...
zomg so TRUE !!!
especially the part with the bemoaning of fate !!
hahaha, and the parents tend to be much more easy going blah blah blah
thus MANY MIDDLE CHILDREN GROW UP WITH MORE RELAXED ATTITUDE TOWARDS LIFE
Hmmm...that explains the heck caring attitude :x
hahaha but its really true like its is so fucking hard for me to get the attention
from my parents like when i tell them something they
fucking ignore and don`t give a damn to what im saying
but when my brother opens his mouth
everyone`s all ears
WTF la seriously
i once remembered my tuition teacher said
" the worst scenario is when a family of 3 has a boy as the oldest and another boy as the youngest"
WHY ???
"because the mommy will love the oldest boy more while the daddy will love the baby boy the most "
OH GREAT!!!! leaving the middle child to rot and die in this world =.=''
and that brings me to the point of the youngest child being SPOILED ROTTEN
yes ... SO TRUE
thats my brother ... the SPOILED ROTTEN ONE
i`m so freakin PISSED at the fact that he gets what he wants like ...
without even trying ?!
ARGH!!
comment?
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Tuesday, November 17, 2009 1:20 AM
okok this is another one of my rants again
so yeah hehe. :x
anyways yep theres actually something called the middle child syndrome
shocking much ?
and i think im suffering from it o.O
aiya, not surprising ok
i went to do a research about it
and ... here are the results
Yes, the “Middle Child Syndrome” is very real. Middle kids BEMOAN THEIR FATE as being ignored and often grow RESENTFUL of all the parental attention given to the oldest and the baby of the family, and feel short-shifted. Three kids triangulate sibling relationships, with one child at any given point feeling like the odd man out from the chumminess of the other two.Parents tend to be much more easy-going, less anxious, and less demanding with second child. Thus many middle children grow up with a more relaxed attitude towards life than their older siblings; though they have to compete for family attention against the milestones set by the oldest, and growing up in their shadow. Middle children have to try a little harder to “be heard” or get noticed. The middle child usually has to fight harder for the attention of their parents and therefore crave the family spotlight. They may feel that they do not get as much praise as the older children for simple firsts like tying a shoe or riding a bike. Those things just become expected.
The baby of the family basks in the sentimentality of being the last child, and are basically SPOILED ROTTEN. The youngest children tend to be most affectionate, and more sophisticated than their peers without older siblings to show them the ropes.
OKOK this is so so so scaring me ...
zomg so TRUE !!!
especially the part with the bemoaning of fate !!
hahaha, and the parents tend to be much more easy going blah blah blah
thus MANY MIDDLE CHILDREN GROW UP WITH MORE RELAXED ATTITUDE TOWARDS LIFE
Hmmm...that explains the heck caring attitude :x
hahaha but its really true like its is so fucking hard for me to get the attention
from my parents like when i tell them something they
fucking ignore and don`t give a damn to what im saying
but when my brother opens his mouth
everyone`s all ears
WTF la seriously
i once remembered my tuition teacher said
" the worst scenario is when a family of 3 has a boy as the oldest and another boy as the youngest"
WHY ???
"because the mommy will love the oldest boy more while the daddy will love the baby boy the most "
OH GREAT!!!! leaving the middle child to rot and die in this world =.=''
and that brings me to the point of the youngest child being SPOILED ROTTEN
yes ... SO TRUE
thats my brother ... the SPOILED ROTTEN ONE
i`m so freakin PISSED at the fact that he gets what he wants like ...
without even trying ?!
ARGH!!
comment?
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